A LIFE PLAN FOR EFFECTIVE HUMAN RELATIONS

Different Views of Success § Some believe climbing the corporate ladder to make as much money as possible is success. They work extreme hours and dedicate their entire life to work. Ø The pressure to work longer, harder and to compete is causing a wide-range of health problems. § Others believe it is more important to work less, sacrifice higher salaries to have more time for family and friends. ☺ Best Scenario: To have a healthy combination of both these views Developing Your Own Life Plan § It is vital that people define their own ideas of success. § Do not base your development on the judgment or view of others. § Dr. Dyer “Do something because you want to or feel you have to, not because of its outcome.” § Find out what you want in life and create everything else around that dream. True success is a combination of many achievements, not just a single accomplishment Right Livelihood Work consciously chosen, done with full awareness and care, leading to enlightenment. (p. 456 text) 1. Based on conscious choice 2. Places money in a secondary position 3. Recognizes that work is a vehicle for self-expression People with Right Livelihood share these traits: § Higher self-esteem § Find it easier to make decisions § Self-disciplined § Have established meaningful goals § Feel as sense of happiness as they meet their goals Non-Financial Resources These 4 components can enrich your life: 1. Mental Health 2. Education/Intellectual growth 3. Leisure Time 4. Healthy Spirituality Putting Balance In Your Life Habits hab·it noun 1. a. A recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition. b. An established disposition of the mind or character . 5 Steps To Breaking a Negative or Creating a Positive Habit: 1. Motivation 2. Knowledge 3. Practice 4. Feedback 5. Reinforcement Goal Setting § Should be an integral part in everyone’s lives. § Set realistic and attainable goals. § Be specific, and clear. § Put your goals in writing, this makes it part of your consciousness. REMEMBER, YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO DECIDE WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU WANT TO BE. Dr. Wayne Dyer Video: Improve Your Life Using The Wisdom of The Ages § Cat Philosophy: Find happiness in your life and let it follow you Traits of Being Successful: § Enjoy every part of your life to the fullest extent § Always continue to grow – being better than you used to § Do what you want to do, not what others want you to do - “Cultivate your own garden” § Have enthusiasm in all you do § No conception of failure, learn what to do with the results There’s A Genius In All Of Us: § Realize the method that you learn best from and develop it § Understand every person reacts or learns differently Autobiography Story – Breaking Habits: § Choose the “street” or path of your life § Realize you have the choice to do anything, by having a positive outlook you can reach your dreams Word Count: 521

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